Thursday, June 11, 2015

The Emotional Roller Coaster When Someone is Out of Your League

When I started blogging again few months ago, I told myself not to discuss anything related to love and relationships. It's not that I don't want to write about it but I just find it really broad. Since it's a broad topic, a single blog post about it would totally result into being vague. It is a matter of what worked for me and for others may not work for you. It is difficult to talk about it in general since it totally varies in each individual.

Be that as it may, I am having these random thoughts that I think would be a waste if not shared. So before I start talking about it, I want you to know that this might or might not be applicable to you. It would be great if you could relate to it though.

Here I am going to write about the emotional roller coaster that you most likely have to go through when the one you like or love is totally out of your league.

How does society identify someone who is out of your league? Your dream girl? Your dream guy? Well, there are fairy tales, shoujo stories, telenovelas, and movies that can answer that. Hey, there's no judging here, okay? Everything would just be a platonic discussion. In a fairy tale, the protagonist is usually a commoner partnered with a character of royalty. In a shoujo, the female protagonist usually ends up with a super cool and rich male lead. In a telenovela, a maid gets married to the master of the house. In a movie, an ordinary employee gets into a too good to be true relationship with the president of the company.

Okay, let's drop the love-conquers-all-love-has-no-boundaries thing. No, just no. Let us be more realistic in here.